Basically, an anonymous blog where you can ask me anything you want! Anything! If you do not want to ask for help from someone you know, here is your place! I am no professional, but i promise to help you with anything, to the best of my ability! I am doing this on my own, at the moment, so i will try and reply to questions as soon as possible, thank you!
the boy i like told me ''ly'' once in msn
i'm freaking out
but i think it's not too much..

Do not jump to any conclusions, get to know him before rushing into anything!

If you're going to have a blog of this nature it's important that you commit to it and refrain from ridiculous two week gaps of being online.
If you want to help people, do it. Some of these problems can't wait.

I have been checking this blog, and have not received any messages, so before you come, giving your opinion, know the facts, thank you.

There is this really hot, lovely boy in my year, he is really popular and everyone always goes on about his looks and everything. We’re really close as in I can talk to him about most things but everyone just laughs at me when we walk round school together because I’m not known as a popular kid. He usually just tells me to ignore them and does so himself. About two years ago he was in a terrible mood and they said something about us and he completely lashed out on them and had a massive fight with them. Ever since he stood up for me I’ve liked him a lot and completely adored him. I haven’t told him that I like him because I don’t know how he’ll take it and I really don’t want to ruin our friendship. I know for a fact that he like someone else and I know that he will get really awkward if I was to tell him how I feel

I think you should tell the boy how you feel, he clearly has feeling for you, otherwise he would not have acted to protect you! Be strong! xx

thank you for having an amazing blog like yours. definetly had to promote. (:

Thank you!

I've been away on a two week trip. Before I left, I sent out an inbox on Facebook asking 20 of my friends to email me.
One of my best friends hasn't even bothered replying my emails.
He's going off to college at the end of the summer and I'm stuck here in high school.
About a month ago, he was in Boston, setting stuff up for college while I was on vacation in Vegas. He had this huge meltdown about how it's now sinking in that I'm not going to college with him.
We've been there for eachother at out highest and lowest points. He's my everything. I don't understand why he isn't reaching out to me now that I'm half a world away. Doesn't he miss me?
I come home in 3 days.
How do I go about all of this?

It seems to me that he still cares about you, if he has said he is upset that you will not be at college together, maybe he is too upset and devastated to reply? If you are returning in 3 days, maybe send him another email? Maybe say something like, not sure whether you received my previous email but i have missed you and i was wondering if you want to meet up and have a catch up? Do not lose faith in them just yet, they may have several reasons why they did not reply! Keep smiling, this problem can be resolved by talking! 

SPREAD THE WORD, THERE ARE MORE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO NEED HELP AND ADVICE!

I have a boyfriend who's in a foster home.
No one really liked him in his old foster home, and he kept getting in fights, so he had to move to a different home.
Since he moved, they don't let him talk on the phone.
We haven't talked in 5 days, and it's honestly killing me.
It shouldn't be killing me but I'm depressed like mostly all of the time.
When I hear his voice, it just makes me feel like every thing is going to be okay.
I haven't been able to sleep at all because I just can't stop thinking about him.
The day before he left, he was like "you're not gonna forget about me, are you?'
And I was just like "no, I could never"
And he didn't believe me.
I'm kinda scared that he's gonna forget about me.
I just hate that he lives in a different state.
I don't know how you're gonna be able to help with this, but I just needed to tell someone about it I guess.
If you can help, then thank you. <3

Can he receive letters? Because when you feel alone, you could write him a letter, that way you can stay in touch, i know it isn’t the same as seeing him, or hearing his voice, but at least you know he is still there, and still okay? Try it? Ask you parents to go and see the people that run the foster home, they should understand if you want to write a letter?! Stay strong! <3

is there any reason to tell my parents that i am gay if i know they will be fine with it. they have had lesbian and gay friends for my whole life so i know it wont be a problem. on one hand i think it shouldnt matter if they know, on the other, i feel like im being selfish by not letting them know 'the real me'. please help with my petty problem :)

It is not petty, i think you should be open with them! Definitely if you know they will respect what you tell them! Good luck, let me know how it goes! 

I like a boy, and he flirted with me for like 2 days then we met up and he flirted with me after. He hasnt texted me in 2 days, is he done with me or waiting for me to make the first move

Probably sat thinking the same thing as you, if you don’t make the first move, you may regret it, just send him a text! What have you got to lose?

So this is another one about relationshops, I'm sorry if your bored with it but I guess you're an advice blog, anyway..

I'm really close with this boy and we share everything with each other, he knows about my cutting, suicidle thoughts, etc. But lastnight I had a dream about him dying and woke up and was worrying about him. So I started to walk to the station and got on the train to see him and turned up at his house, it was about twelve and luckily he was still alive. I don't know why but I had to see his face and not just hear his voice. He let me in and we had to be quiet because his parents were asleep so I was just sitting on the sofa with him and I was telling him about my dream. He literally just moved over closer and faced me, he then just went 'shh' in my ear and told me I was beautiful and how much he loved me. But the whole thing is I have a boyfriend and he knows that but I love them both more than anything. I don't know what to do, I guess what I'm asking for is what would you do if you was in my situation?

That is tricky, if i was you, i would go with your heart, who do you care about the most? Who do you look forward to seeing? It is very hard to chose between two people, but if you really loved the first, would you have fallen in love with the second?